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My boyfriend has just dumped me on facebook?!

These were his exact words:
hey, listen i really wanted to speak to u face to face but i dont think i have the guts, but i need some time to sort my head and life out, i just need a break for abit so i can sort all this out, im really sorry about this and i do love you and have feelings for you just my head is wrecked and im strssed out and i need to take it one step at a time, i will keep talking to u and let you know how im doing. i do want to be with you alot but i just really dont want u getting hurt from my mistakes. Im sorry.

Do that sound to you like he loves me and when he's sorted his life out he will get back with me?
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RnBStar13 posted over a year ago
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i dont know... It could be either side, do u know whats going on with him in his life? But still thats no reason to break up with u... ESPECIALLY over Facebook... thats just pathetic. im not sure if thats better, worse or just as bad as a text message.
FireByrd15 posted over a year ago
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Well I feel like there's nothing wrong with him but he is addicted to cannabis, he lives in a hostel, he's losing his friends and he can't get a job because of drugs so everything is hard for him. And I know he told me he didn't want it to end so why did he end it? confusing.
RnBStar13 posted over a year ago
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jameswilson said:
It's possible, but I wouldn't count on it. I don't say this because I want to grab any hopes you might have away from you, but it's probably best for you to move on and not spend too much time waiting for him to come back to you.
He may really intend to be with you again when he sorts out his problems, but you shouldn't get your hopes up or count to heavily on it incase that isn't really what he wants in the end.
Stay friends with him and let the situation play itself out naturally.
Good luck!

P.S. Sorry that he broke up with you on Facebook, that sucks!
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posted over a year ago 
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Thank you for the advice :) and it's okay lol
RnBStar13 posted over a year ago
LuvelyKysses said:
Sounds like the longer version of that tired line 'it's not you it's me' line.

I'm real sorry that he broke up with you on Facebook. He could've at least told you how he felt over the phone or at least make an attempt to try to tell you in person, but instead took the coward way out. It seems to me that he's using that mess as an excuse then again I could be wrong, but a lot of guys that were in his situation would find ways to end a relationship on account he wants something more but doesn't want to hurt you so he comes up with a lame excuse. I've been where you are right now a few times and when I've heard it, I was foolish enough to believe that he'd come back but he never did. Instead of coming right out and being honest, he just up and disappeared never to return.
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It's okay :) it's not the end of the world, I'm just going to get on with my life now and try to put him out my head(even though it will be hard) and somehow I don't think we will get back together now, they all say they'll come back and never do.
RnBStar13 posted over a year ago
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That's the spirit. I know it'll be hard to get him out of your head. I know 'cause it's been almost two years since my ex left.. With love, you can always start again. Keep ya head up =)
LuvelyKysses posted over a year ago
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