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Okay I like one of my guy friends..so a while back I told him that I liked him and he said he just wanted to be friends. And even though it hurt to hear that..I just accepted it. So now he got a girlfriend. And believe he I am happy for Jim. But wwhenevr I tell him not to bring her up or anything about being single or in a relationship. But he does anyways!!!!! And when we hung out yesterday..he just..well..completely ignored me..it wasn't as fun as it used to be..how do I handle this all and what is he trying to say..?????
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alex1201 posted over a year ago
 alex1201 posted over a year ago
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dreamfields said:
Sometimes when a guy has a crush or is infatuatied with a girl, she is all he thinks about. I don't think he's trying to be mean to you, it's just a phase.
I think it's reasonable for you to request that he does not only talk about her when you two are hanging out.
But, if you want to be friends with him, you will have to accept that she is important to him. So he will mention her from timeto time.
Tell him how you feel. Hopefully he will understand. For your sake, try not to wait around for the two of you to be more than friends. That can be the most miserble experience. Good luck.
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awwllss yeshhhh he talks about her NON-STOP!!!!! and it really hurts..i told him not to bring her uo mannyyy of times...but, he continues to do it..
alex1201 posted over a year ago
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It might be hard, but you might need to spend less time around him. I say this one. so you don't have to have your feelings hurt. Second, it might cause him to stop and think about what he's doing. These type of situations are the ones I do not miss from being a teenager. Hang in there, and do what's best for you.
dreamfields posted over a year ago
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Well looks like you have to go out of your way not to talk to him *sorry* and if tries to sit next to you on the bus asking why you've been avioding him lately just say 'It's for the best.' You know soothing like that so you don't hurt him
Dhampires posted over a year ago
Mileym said:
Well i think you should talk to him abt how u feel cuz he might nt know that u'r nt liking it .....hope this helps
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posted over a year ago 
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true..but its like..he just doesnt take it seriously.
alex1201 posted over a year ago
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So i think he dosn't want u as a friend anymore..i think u shoukd ignore him & if he really cared abt u'r friendship he'll cm bak
Mileym posted over a year ago
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