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Can you help me with this serious guy problem? its urgent!

Ok, so this guy that i have known for years, suddenly decides to start texting me repeatedly, asking me out. So, i keep texting him back telling him no because i have a boyfriend. Then he started repeatedly asking me why. I told him i couldn't say. The reason why i couldn't tell him was because I didn't want to hurt his feelings by telling him i didn't like him, and because my boyfriend is a football player and the guy that likes me is really scrawny and got beaten up by a girl last year and my boyfriend has the ability's to smash his face in the ground, and even though the guys annoying i don't want him to get hurt. The texts stopped but i still need advice. Helpful answers please!
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Do it in person texting about this stuff is just wrong.
CapShunsuifan13 posted over a year ago
 TotalDramaDoll6 posted over a year ago
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polarwagon15 said:
Take about five dozen of eggs. Start putting them in a bowl. Mix the fuck out of them.
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best advice ever.
XxKeithHarkinxX posted over a year ago
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hahah xD
iamagagamonster posted over a year ago
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^ +1 internets
polarwagon15 posted over a year ago
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NoahFanNumber1 said:
Oh. You're one of THOSE girls, hm?
Truthfully, who do you think you'd be happier with? And I'm not saying which makes you look better, I saying who is the nice one. Carries your stuff for you, listens to you, helps you, talks to you, responds to you. That's every girls' dream boyfriend, but which one acts more like this?

You're young. There will be many many many many boys. This little thing, you'll forget it by next year. You'll be with a completely different guy. Just have fun now while you can.

I'd say give the guy a chance, or just say you can be friends. Don't hurt him. I don't have experience with dating (has never had one boyfriend), but I've been observing over the years. Being invisible sure has its perks! XD

LASTLY, (dang I have a lot to say!) don't judge a book by its cover,...... says the girl with glasses, braces, short hair, big ears, acne, and a big nose who's going to grow up to be a famous psychiatrist one day... >_>







DANG I TALK TOO MUCH SOMEONE SHUT ME UP BEFORE I EXPL-....
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Oh us philosophical invisibles. XD
JaseKS posted over a year ago
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you understand me ;v;
NoahFanNumber1 posted over a year ago
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@noah Agreed.
BlindBandit92 posted over a year ago
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Thank u for that gentle answer too. :)
TotalDramaDoll6 posted over a year ago
iamagagamonster said:
well...
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well...
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lol
TotalDramaDoll6 posted over a year ago
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:))
sweety63 posted over a year ago
springely said:
Tell him to start lifting.
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XxKeithHarkinxX said:
Okay, you wouldn't date a guy just because he's scrawny and got beaten up by a girl HOLYFUCKYOU'RESHALLLOW

I feel really bad for him tbh.

It's better to be completely honest with him why you can't date him.

Seriously stop being a shallow fuck and tell him.
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Do u listen? i said i dont wanna date him because i wasnt attracted to him! If i dated him, by boyfriend would beat him up, and i dont want to see him get hurt -_-
TotalDramaDoll6 posted over a year ago
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Funny, cause when we say something about you, you get all defensive. Do we get defensive, sure, but we are not hypocrites.
ConnerandTravis posted over a year ago
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*Facepalm* This argument is really immature when u read it all. I'm done with your immatures comebacks, I don't want to be apart of ur attitude for people. You don't get the time of day anymore. And btw, i already know wat u little cyber bullys have in mind for ur next comeback, goodbye.
TotalDramaDoll6 posted over a year ago
ConnerandTravis said:
He'd much rather hear the truth than to have you lie.

Okay just because someone is scrawny and got beaten up by a girl doesn't mean they are a bad person. Your boyfriend could have looks and muscles and whatever, but the scrawny kid could have a heart.


Also, girls can be tougher than guys so just because he got beaten up by one, doesn't make the guy weak.


Answer the poor guy. He'd much rather have you answer no, than wait for you to say no. That would hurt him even more
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ugh, do people take time to read anymore? -_-
TotalDramaDoll6 posted over a year ago
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*then*
ConnerandTravis posted over a year ago
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@Total Alright then find a way to tell him nicely then. That is a good idea.
BlindBandit92 posted over a year ago
seffro said:
Well....
when we furries don't like someone
We eat him/her
Give it a try
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Well.... when we furries don't like someone We eat him/her Give it a try
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lol! :D
TotalDramaDoll6 posted over a year ago
SBTrulz said:
Here:
1. Sweetly, kindy, and gently reject him.
2. Hug a tree.
3. Lick a wall.
4. Give a cookie to a hobo.
And that is how Equestria was formed! ;)
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Here: 1. Sweetly, kindy, and gently reject him. 2. Hug a tree. 3. Lick a wall. 4. Give a cookie to a hobo. And that is how Equestria was formed! ;)
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lol
TotalDramaDoll6 posted over a year ago
JaseKS said:
You have to be honest with him and tell him that you're already dating someone whom you love very much. Being honest is the best option. Everyone deserves to be told the truth.

Look, I understand that you don't want to hurt his feelings, but think of it this way: by not telling him the truth, you're leaving room for him to assume the worst.
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Exactly.
BlindBandit92 posted over a year ago
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Thank u for the gentle answer.
TotalDramaDoll6 posted over a year ago
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:)
TotalDramaDoll6 posted over a year ago
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@Total, LMAO
XxKeithHarkinxX posted over a year ago
BlindBandit92 said:
Tell the guy the truth. If he founds out another way he will be crushed so your helpful ideas will probably not work in the long run. if you are not attracted to him just say so. i would rather a person tell me straight up then lie about it.
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Alright, but im having trouble how to say something mean, nicely.
TotalDramaDoll6 posted over a year ago
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^Honestly the truth hurts sometimes but I wouldn't always call it mean you know. Just nicely "I am sorry but I don't see you that way. (If he is a good friend.) I see you as a friend than a boyfriend. I would still like to consider you a friend. I am sorry but that is how I feel. Or if he isn't a friend to you just say what I said but take out friend.
BlindBandit92 posted over a year ago
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@Blind I am sensative, because im a girl, and im not a female wrestler. Also, i care about peoples feelings, and i dont like to see them get hurt. Telling something to hurt them because you have to is ok, but it hurts, and adding hurtful things like "deal with it u crybaby!' or something only makes it worse.
TotalDramaDoll6 posted over a year ago
Lilmisshipster said:
Tbh i'd rather date the scrawny then the football and so what if he got beat up by a girl what if he fought back and beat the hell out of her would u like him then?
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iPsychic said:
Well, I'ma more into scrawny and skinny guys than boys with huge muscles. Maybe, you should just stay siiiiiiingle. Everything's so much easier when your single it seems xD Otherwise, just tell the poor, scrawny boy no and such.
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Book-Freak said:
Tell him, in person, that you are very sorry and you dont want to hurt his feelings but he is just a friend to you.
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