Morals are subjective. If you deem it moral, then it is. If you do not, then it isn't. The real question anyone must ask themselves in this situation would be: "Do I feel comfortable having sex at this point in time in my life and with this person I am either dating or have randomly selected?"
Just gotta do right by you. That's it.
Morally? NO. Yet people still do immoral bullcrap. Not that we're perfect--cuz we aren't. Human's are filled with flaws and mistakes.
If this is you who has lost it at this age, then.... my question is: Do you like knowing you did it? Some people regret loosing it so early. Me? I have never lost it and I'm almost 25 (mainly cuz I don't follow the crowd, I stay true to who I am)
posted over a year ago
No it isn't me hahah just loads of my friends and people at school which I agree isn't right
As a christian I was also taught that (unless marriage is in the plans) no.
As someone who understands that everyone has a different set of morals and beliefs. And as someone who doesn't like to tell others how to lead their lives--sure why not? It's none of my business how other people live so long as it doesn't affect me any.
Morals are subjective. Anything that is right for one can be wrong for another. Now that's me being diplomatic about this.
But my absolute indifferent side is: I don't really care all that much. I mean it's not like my opinion will shape anything. People will do what they wanna do regardless of what you tell them.
Morality is subjective and virginity is a social construct. Losing it can be a big deal or not. It can be important to you but it's not a prize to be protected. If sex is consensual and you think you're ready and you don't regret it, fine.
