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Should I forgive her??

I was best friends with this girl for six years, from nursery to the end of primary school. We did everything together, were pretty much joined at the hip. But then out of nowhere in the summer holidays she just cut me off completely, refused to talk to me and avoided me for ages until I was forced to take the hint. I was so upset and so angry, but I did eventually get over it. Now all of a sudden she's emailed me saying she's really sorry and knows what she did was wrong and wants to be my friend again. Should I forgive her??
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i think u should kus u were best friends from the get go
bigd1 posted over a year ago
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nooo way if she was horrid 2 yaa smack her and never be her friend again x
ilovethexfacter posted over a year ago
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dnt forgive her if she was complety mean 2 yaa
ilovethexfacter posted over a year ago
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i think you should discuss it with her. Maybe she had a reason for doing that and discuss what she felt like and tell her what yu felt like when she was saying that.
seksyglam posted over a year ago
 Lighty-Hedgehog posted over a year ago
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breebree446 said:
You should be friends with her. When you leave this world, regret nothing. At least have closure with her. But let her know how bad she made you feel. She was your best friend "Once" why can't she be it again. She may have been going through an awkward time.
I hope it works out well for you two:-)
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You should be friends with her. When you leave this world, regret nothing. At least have closure with her. But let her know how bad she made you feel. She was your best friend "Once" why can't she be it again. She may have been going through an awkward time. I hope it works out well for you two:-)
posted over a year ago 
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yeaah i agree but if she does it continually then she is not worth feeling upset and angry about
seksyglam posted over a year ago
lilacool said:
it's up to u!if u need a mate and think that she's gonna be a better person in the future,then u shud!
and if not,u shudn't!
But here's wat i'd do,i'd accept and see if shes any better.if she did the same thing and ignored me again,i'd hate her and never make up with her again! =)hope i helped!i did mi best :-)
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posted over a year ago 
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What i would do: don't accept completely yet and discuss it with her ask her why she did it, tell her how she made you feel when she did that
seksyglam posted over a year ago
joelemasters said:
Well i guess it really depends...do you feel like allowing her back into your life?its good that she said she was sorry..but i think that you deserve a reason to as of why she did it.but if you feel like you want to give her another chance at a friendship then go for it.
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posted over a year ago 
RedDice99 said:
I think you should, if she does it a second time, then forgive her again. But if she does it for a third time, then don't forgive her ass anymore. I think that's what you should do. You agree?
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posted over a year ago 
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Anyone else agree?
RedDice99 posted over a year ago
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I agree with you on that.i think that some kind of explaination should be given to why she did it though
joelemasters posted over a year ago
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That's what I'm sayin' Thanks
RedDice99 posted over a year ago
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no i think give her 1 chance if she does it again tell her LAST time and if she really wants to be your friend she should'nt do it again. However if she does it 3 times then obviously she is not clever enough to realise she is losing a very nice forgiving friend
seksyglam posted over a year ago
rebcam13 said:
Yes you should, because she was probaly trying to fit in with snooty people or something, but frogive her a friendship like that shoul last forever.
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posted over a year ago 
lollipopszx3 said:
I think so. Six years is a very long time and well if she is your best friend she probably has a good reason for avoiding you. I don't think that over one thing that happened for two months should break a friendship that lasted for six years.
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posted over a year ago 
PoddoChan said:
YES YOU SHOULD!
Could be a mistake or something that she acted that way, Forget it and just think it's no biggie :)
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posted over a year ago 
xneville_rocksx said:
I think that you should see how sorry she really is. If she is truely sorry, then you should become friends again. If she is not, then I do not think that that person deserves to be your friend.
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posted over a year ago 
Jeffersonian said:
NO!!! If she ignored you completely once, she could do it again. I was in such a friendship, and we were "friends" for a long time like you and this girl were. Not to mention I also thought this girl was my best friend. When I finally realised I was being used, and I decided to cut off the so called friendship, you know what she did? She sent me an e-mail saying that it was obviously a friendship that had "outstayed it's welcome" Your case sounds an awful lot like mine.
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posted over a year ago 
tooch said:
I think you should talk to her and try and find out why she cut you off all of a sudden.
See her point of view, make your opinion and then see if her reason was good enough for forgiveness.
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