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Do you feel angry at Ron for making Hermione cry several times ever since their first year?

 TheLogicalwitch posted over a year ago
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SignalFire90 said:
I'm just going to repost what I said on Tumblr about this whole 'Ron is not deserving of Hermione because he makes her cry' nonsense- "Today I saw a gif of Ron/Hermione and I just couldn’t contain my delight at how perfect my OTP is. It was when Ron got splinched and he was lying on the floor bleeding and Hermione is over him. And she just looks like she is in so much pain because Ron is in pain. And she’s crying and she’s panicking and she’s yelling at Harry to hurry up and find the bottle to heal him. And I’m just thinking to myself about all the people who say that Ron doesn’t deserve Hermione because he always makes her cry. But isn’t the person who makes you cry the one who has the strongest hold on your heart? And how is making Hermione cry a bad thing? Because think about it. This is HERMIONE. Hermione Granger. She is the smart one, the calm one, the cool and collected one. The one who when everyone else is freaking out, she will remain logical and think of a way to save them instead. But when Ron was lying there bleeding, Hermione lost her cool. She wasn’t perfect-Hermione anymore. She was breaking down and her voice was shaking and it was all she could do to try and keep it together. And she knew now, more than ever, that she needed to keep it together for Ron’s sake, but still, she couldn’t control her emotions. It was the most relatable, the most human, and the most raw that I had ever seen Hermione before. And, in the books, when Ron left and came back, Harry told him that Hermione cried for weeks after he had gone and that she tried not to let Harry see her crying, because she always has to be the one who is strong and calm and thinking rationally. But when Ron was gone, part of her heart was gone so she couldn’t deny that part of herself that was hurting. Think of all the other times that Hermione broke down. It is ALWAYS because of Ron. He’s the one that is able to break down that barrier that Hermione has up. Straight from the very first book when he insulted her and she cried in the bathroom. He inspired change in her. He made her realize that she couldn’t treat people as inferior. When they were 11 years old, it was Ron who made her realize that she didn’t have to be always-perfect Hermione, that she could just be a good friend, because maybe being a good friend was more important. It was RON who helped her to understand that. It is always Ron who brings out the best side of Hermione, the emotion in Hermione, the real Hermione hiding behind her books and intelligence. And it’s because he’s the one who has her heart. JK Rowling wrote something so amazing, I just can’t. My OTP is so beautiful. Sometimes I just want to sit down with a bucket and cry at it’s perfection."

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voting as best comment-your comment was perfection.
peppergirl30 posted over a year ago
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OMFG! That was awesome!!!! I wish I could give it 200 more votes.
Vixie79 posted over a year ago
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Awesome
HARMONYforever posted over a year ago
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I'm so touched! really!! its the first time i came on-line after posting the question. Please don't think that like many others i think Ron doesn't deserve Hermione. I myself am sick of those people and i've always thought that Romione is the most perfect couple...I'm glad to have ur views. thnx..
TheLogicalwitch posted over a year ago
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roseteaxx said:
Ron has indeed made Hermione cry several times since first year. Hermione has also made Ron cry several times since first year. Both of them have been very wrong at times. But mostly, the reason they've made each other cry is because they love each other, and either they don't want to admit it, or they are jealous and afraid that the other doesn't love them back. So at times, I've been pretty angry at both Ron and Hermione. At other times, although I may disagree, I can understand why they do what they do and say what they say.

I agree that Ron is often a bit worse because he's so easily jealous and he's a grudge holder. But they both do it to each other.
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peppergirl30 said:
No,I think it was a symbol of the affection between them. I Think he was afraid to show any of his affection around her in the beginning so he replaced that feeling by teasing her slightly. But, Hermione was doing the same thing so I guess they both got on each other's nerves.
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Vixie79 said:
SignalFire said it all for me. It was a love/hate relationship between Hermione and Ron. Not all romances start off with batting eyelashes and kittens farting rainbows. I love what JK did, it was realistic and grounded. From the first time I saw them interact I knew they would end up with each other. It was just a shame that it took so long for them to kiss.
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Same goes for me. the first time they ever talked(in the Hogwarts Express) I knew they were destined. However if they hadn't taken long to kiss,we wouldn't have had the intense love/hate relation u talked of. Not for so long at least.
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lililc said:
Yeah a little, but first than anything,hermione is easy to cry
in first year she was actually a know-it all and said what he tought and his intentions werent hurt her

in third year he was a jerk about the scabers´s thing but he got a point about she didn't control her cat

in fourth ron made her cry for his first jelaousy experience

in sixth all the problem was because Ginny told Ron that hermione kissed Krum

So, all that problems are from their past
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