stelena fans, as a former delena hard core fan (like crazy hard core) and I know I'm little too late but I actually became a stelena & bamon hard core and now that I'm a former delena fan can honestly tell you I was jealous of a lot of stelena fans through-out S1-S4 they had A LOT of great scenes together that even though I was shipping delena I always was asking myself well what's left for delena because stelena had all the huge important emotional moments/scenes all the cute, sweet and hot moments that I always wondered what was left for delena to have, and what was left is hot make out/sex scenes and NOTHING more because stelena even as friends had much deeper, emotional scenes moments than delena ever had, so for me even though delena was "endgame" they were endgame in every meaningless way, unlike stelena who are the REAL endgame in every meaningful sense, I mean Elena showed MORE REAL emotions about Stefan's death (she CRIED TWICE) than her reunion with her so called "love of her life", so if we are measuring/comparing REAL, MEANINGFUL endgame wise stelena wins with flying stars.