i would really like some help with this problem.

Maybe your being over-concious.
It could all turn out to be a coincidence.
It IS possible.
Maybe he's not coming on fanpop coz he doesn't have time, coz he's bored of it.
If you's were such good friends, i doubt that he is avoiding you by not coming on fanpop.

And you mentioned about his problem, if i wrote above isn't true, maybe he needs to have some time to himself. Some people dont want to talk to people when they have problems, and that doesnt nessisarily mean YOUR the problem.

I REALLY dont think he's avoiding you, And I REALLY dont think that your the problem either.

I think you might be over-reacting, because sometimes friends get like that when they dont hear from their friends in a while.

So dont write hate messages like you did in that group, that isn't helping anything. Actually, all it'd be doing is making things worse.

I suggest you wait a while, maybe about a week or 2, then kindly message him saying
"im sorry how i reacted" and stuff like that.

At the end of the day, you probably dont even know the full story.

I hope i helped.
Good luck :)

I know what that is like. And it isn't fun. If you think he has a problem, maybe you should message him to see what's wrong. Then wait. That's the only thing you can do. When he's ready to talk, he'll come. I know it isn't easy to take, but sometimes that's the best answer. Hope this helps and I hope things will be okay between you two. Good luck.

i have had that happen to me with my sis. then i thought if she really did care about me she wouldnt do that. i had to belive enough that she wouldnt put me throught this. mabey thats what you should do. just think about how much of a friend he was to you and how he wouldnt put you throught that pain. if you hear from him plz let me no.

ok calm down! if he is so messed up then u need 2 rethink wht stress ur adding 2 him if he is just a good friend. he mayb not allowd on the computer or the problems he faces r 2 personal 4 him 2 open yet. u have a life & a bf so try 2 focus on them.