The Five Emotional Phases after Break-Up
Here are some things that I know about emotional phases after break up.
A. Denial
The signs:
You don’t believe that the break-up happened and you may try to call or text your ex because you can’t imagine him not being part of your daily life.
It will last for about: 7 days
B. Devastation
The signs:
You cry all the time or feel humiliated for making yourself vulnerable. You may start imagining him with another girl – so there will be jealousy on top of all the misery.
It will last for about: 14 days
C. Anger
The signs:
You start obsessing about all the bad things your ex did and how awful he was for dumping you. You may also get mad at yourself for ever thinking that he was worth falling in love with.
I t will last for about: 7 days
D. Sadness
The signs:
As you return to your normal routine and your friends stop fussing over you, you’ll really feel his absence, and may get kinda depressed.
It will last for about: 14 days
E. Acceptance
The signs:
You go to bed realizing you survived a whole day without being sad about your ex. The pain no longer controls your life and you have actually managed to live without him.
It will last for about: 14 days
Get over your ex! You deserve better! I know it’s so hard to do, but it’s not impossible to overcome. It all begins with knowing you can have fun again.
TRIVIA: It actually takes one-third of the total time you were together before you fully get over your ex.
Here are some things that I know about emotional phases after break up.
A. Denial
The signs:
You don’t believe that the break-up happened and you may try to call or text your ex because you can’t imagine him not being part of your daily life.
It will last for about: 7 days
B. Devastation
The signs:
You cry all the time or feel humiliated for making yourself vulnerable. You may start imagining him with another girl – so there will be jealousy on top of all the misery.
It will last for about: 14 days
C. Anger
The signs:
You start obsessing about all the bad things your ex did and how awful he was for dumping you. You may also get mad at yourself for ever thinking that he was worth falling in love with.
I t will last for about: 7 days
D. Sadness
The signs:
As you return to your normal routine and your friends stop fussing over you, you’ll really feel his absence, and may get kinda depressed.
It will last for about: 14 days
E. Acceptance
The signs:
You go to bed realizing you survived a whole day without being sad about your ex. The pain no longer controls your life and you have actually managed to live without him.
It will last for about: 14 days
Get over your ex! You deserve better! I know it’s so hard to do, but it’s not impossible to overcome. It all begins with knowing you can have fun again.
TRIVIA: It actually takes one-third of the total time you were together before you fully get over your ex.
I hav to tell u... Ive been cheaten on and I'm sure u hav been 2, but here r things to do hen u catch ur "lover" in the act....
1.Stay calm
Going all syco on them won't solve anyones problems. A steady approach is the mature way to do it. Never start out the confronting with screams and yells(save tht for the middle of confronting)
2.Confroning
Ask ur "lover wat they're doing. If they hesitate or stutter tht shows tht u caught them straight in the act of them cheating on u. Now u yell and scream about how close u were nd tht u cnt believe they'd do this. Finish it off with a bitch slap for women being cheated on. Tll them to go to hell for guys being cheated on.
All u need to do now is walk away nd get ur life bck together. I wouldn't date for some time. Wait awhile. Now u know what to do!
1.Stay calm
Going all syco on them won't solve anyones problems. A steady approach is the mature way to do it. Never start out the confronting with screams and yells(save tht for the middle of confronting)
2.Confroning
Ask ur "lover wat they're doing. If they hesitate or stutter tht shows tht u caught them straight in the act of them cheating on u. Now u yell and scream about how close u were nd tht u cnt believe they'd do this. Finish it off with a bitch slap for women being cheated on. Tll them to go to hell for guys being cheated on.
All u need to do now is walk away nd get ur life bck together. I wouldn't date for some time. Wait awhile. Now u know what to do!
BF: Love, what will you do if you found out that I’m cheating on you? That I love someone else?
GF: Hmmmm…nothing
I’ll just pull your throat out, and I will put it in your lungs.
I’m gonna get you eyes using my bare hands and I will let my pet dog eat them.
Uhm, your heart? I’m gonna put it in a blender together with your internal organs.
I will take your skin off even though you’re still alive and then I will put rock salt all over your body. And then I will cut your sword of glory and I’m gonna put it in our front door, like a chime. After that, I’m gonna put gasoline all over you, and I’m gonna BURN you! And your ashes? I’m gonna flush them in the toilet. Uhmm.wait? Why are you asking me this?
BF: -swallows- (looks uncomfortable and pale)
Uhmm…N-nothing hunn..I-im just curious..I love you my baby!!!