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Is it wrong?

When somebody's fancying me or try to ask me on date I feel an awful discomfort. Not just because I can't see anyone as my boyfriend - It's about dating.
I never had a boyfriend, and I want to TRY kisses, making out, maybe sex - but without being a couple with someone. And without being in love, just simple attraction.
Am I a whore?
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people r just the way they r.
ljsb posted over a year ago
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Dearheart said:
I believe the question isn't "Am I a whore?" The real question is, "How much of myself am I willing to give away?"

Don't condemn yourself for wanting to experiment with that kind of stuff. As humans, we all have that itching curiosity; that impulse to explore, to experiment, to try things out...even when we know it may not be smart. And you don't have to be in love to date, in my opinion. For me personally, I'd prefer to not date or kiss anyone without seriously thinking it over first, but everyone has different convictions and different comfort zones.

However, you need to be mindful of the cost of "trying things out." I've found that the more you give away on a whim or to the wrong person, the more it hurts later and the more regret you'll have. When you play with matches, chances are you'll get burned...badly burned.

Think of it this way...the more pieces of your heart (or body) you give away, the less you'll have to give to your future Prince Charming. And the closer you attach yourself to someone, emotionally or physically, the more it will hurt if you wind up splitting up. I'm sorry if it sounds like I'm being preachy; you don't have to listen to a word I say if you don't want to. I just don't want to see any more girls in my generation needlessly getting hurt.

In a nutshell, my advice is this: Be aware and proud of who you are. Never sell yourself short or give yourself away to someone who doesn't deserve you. By all means, have fun, enjoy life and try new things...but at the same time, be careful. If you don't want to get burned, don't "play with the matches" until you are old enough and wise enough to know how to handle fire. It's better to be safe than sorry. Don't kiss so many frogs that you miss the prince. ;-)

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that is absolutely perfect advise!
daddiesgirl posted over a year ago
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Thank you so much! =)
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jessica101 said:
No you are not you just want to date you don't have to be in love right away if you are dateing someone kissing or even haveing sex it just means that you are not ready to be in love so you are not a whore.
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MrsPattinsonXO said:
Ummmmmmmmmmm no.
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felicity1111 said:
u should date cause no guy will do that stuff not with his girlfriend
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