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Ok I usually wouldnt ask a question on here, I would usually just resolve it myself but I cant handle this anymore.
I like this girl (yes i realize im a girl too so homophobic people please keep your comments to yourself, i dont want to be called a dyke again). Anyway, I like this girl or shall I say Im madly in love with her. The only problem is...she's a complete nutcase. I mean on medication, in mental institution nutcase. (Ironially as I write this, she's in Springgrove, a mental institution in Maryland, for the next 3 weeks).
Ive tried so many times to get over her but I cant. She's broken my heart numerous times, cst me my relationship with my boyfriend and embrassed me by groping me in class (numerous times).
What do i do? How do i get over her? Ive tried my usual method of putting my emotions and stress to the ack of my head and forgetting it, letting fate take over but thats not working. Please anybody, just help!!! Please!!!!!!
 avatar2012 posted over a year ago
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JBfan516 said:
well first of all take a deep breath and breathe out slowly, seems like u could use it.

And second, the feelings you have for her aren't going to go away over night. Bu you have to realize that this person probably isn't the one for you. I realized that before and it's hard, I know but you have to try to distance yourself from her as much as possible. Try to focus on a new crush if you can find one and if not then focuz on a big celebrity crush you have. And if you're a big music person, find a song that describes how you feel and just listen to that song until you get the strength to pull away from her.
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btw this is only if u wanna get over her
JBfan516 posted over a year ago
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Thank you so much. I think i want to get over her, shes only caused trouble in my life. Ill take your advice, thank you.
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demyxfangirl said:
i think you should tell her how you feel and maybe she will feel the same way and it doesnt matter if she she is a nutcase, if you truly love her you should tell her.
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ive tried telling her how i feel and she sort of listened though i could try again. Thank you.
avatar2012 posted over a year ago
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though i kind of want to get over her.
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np
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oh and sorry if i was no help
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samuraibond005 said:
You can decide to take this any way you want to.
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yay music time :)
demyxfangirl posted over a year ago
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thank you that song helped a bit.
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writer67 said:
nothing wrong with being a bit of a nutcase but them grugs are pressants either ups downs or weight building. yet some will act weirdly for attention and to start a scene as she seems to have been left out or abandoned in some shape or form, as you feel love ,much is hard to do let alone forget. love shows its crazy yet sweet at the same time, ask her if you will always be freinds,and will you freinds when your old, that may help for to let go you first must find the angle for a closure of a broken heart, you are a good person,who does care,good an ya and good luck. and yes i been in nut house as a volunteer paient, i didnt have to take the drugs and i saw skinny people get fat,and show no creativeness. and much sadness,and broken hearts do mend as they harden on the outside yet become weaker on the inside. may peace be with you to find the right direction;-]
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Thank you, and for the record she is in the nurturer ( for the second time) because she chased her ex boyfriend around school with a knife. That's part of the reason I think it's a bad idea for me and her to go out but on other hand I can't get over her so thank you im going to ask her if we are going to friends for a long ri
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harleyquinn17 said:
hey, its okay for her to hav a mental prob. beacause u have to know their feelings the right way.i do hav a disease in my head so i understand and i go through this several times.just take some time off and dnt stress much and maybe it can go away or maybe u will find another person.btw there is plenty of fish in da sea!! :P
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thank you
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xenriquegrl said:
Do you really want to get over her? Because by the way you wrote ur question, I can read (between the lines) that you wanna get over her, but at the same time you want her (you know watt I mean).

If you really wanna get over her, keep ur distance from her and focus on something else like the things you love. I dunno, go to a friends house, listen to music (that has nothing to do with a wanted relationship), draw, take a walk, phone ur grandma idk. Keep ur mind of her.

But you know watt would do you some good, if you'd talk to someone about it, like a family member or a bff. And remember, don't try to get over her just cuz she's a mental nutcase. That could really hurt someone inside the heart. She could eventually learn about it and get deeply hurt. It's just for precaution. So yea, focus on something else! But I won't lie, u might not get over her by tomorrow. It might take a while. But you WILL get over her;)
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thank you
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