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I really need help!

I've had a crush on the same guy for a year and 8 months. right now, we're just friends, and i guess im ok with that, but i like him so much! we have a lot of things in common and he's really sweet. he's also called me smart and cute before, so i just dont get why he doesnt want to go out with me! help! what should i do?
 WrigleyRocks66 posted over a year ago
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LiilacLottiie94 said:
speaking from a point of experience, You HAVE to tell him. just be very careful how you go about it.
you don't want to ruin it like i did my one chance. i had a huge crush on this guy but so did EVERY single other girl in the school - he was so kind and hot and funny and cute - everyone was mad for him, but he liked me. i was too scared and head-over-heels reeling from shock that i couldn't tell him - until too late when he left for college and got a new girlfriend because he thought i wasn't interested. but it wasn't that at all- i was just a silly little early teen who had no idea and was completely starsttruck just to be in his very presence. but don't get me wrong- so was every other girl in the school following him around feet not even touching the floor.

i have been kicking myself ever since and screaming why didn't i just bluddy tell him!! it was me he liked more than all those screaming girls so why didn't i take my opportunity!!! the answer, ofcourse is because i was too shy. and stupid. and scared of rejection. so, from then on i have lived by this quote : "hearts can be broken by words left unspoken."
gd luk lol. please don't make the same mistake as me, because i now have to live with that burden for the rest of my life. its too late for me, but not for you. i think that after reading this, you should make your own mind up as to what you feel is the best thing to do.
good luck. i hope things go well for you. he sounds like a nice guy.
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that really suck to hear and i had something happen to me once with a guy but he only moved away and awesmoe quote
arianaggs posted over a year ago
Madeline_Cullen said:
you make the first move ask if he likes you
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I've tried doing that before, but then he doesnt talk to me for like 2 weeks
WrigleyRocks66 posted over a year ago
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If you've made a move, and he pulls back instead of responding, then he's probably not into you. You might want to ask him straight out just to clear the air. But just use your judgement
Jillywinkles posted over a year ago
inlovewith said:
I've te same problem like you. I really like one of my best friends. I have chosen to do nothing and just be friends, I got a few good tips from friends. Like watchin' a scary movie and then grab his hand at something scary and look what he does. But our friendschip means to much to me to risk it.
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gregl said:
Yup, I'd imagine he's just scared. I'd go with the small-amounts-of-seemingly-unintentional-or-at-least-unimportant physical contact. It gets the point across but its deniable.
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AbdoHewitt said:
I love the U.S. actress Jennifer love hewitt
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I love the U.S. actress Jennifer love hewitt
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that was random...
WrigleyRocks66 posted over a year ago
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yea how does that halp
ilovejacoblack posted over a year ago
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haha it's pity that u're not in the random spot!
Irina92 posted over a year ago
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Wow I love Jennifer from AbdoHewitt
AbdoHewitt posted over a year ago
JoshsBabe66 said:
well i m like that tooo and trust me it not fun>;what i do is i just stay his friend and then in like a week or so ask him out or if thair is a school dance tack him thair with you and just slow dance with him intill he makes a move thats what i would do:]
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