Death...

First of all, I'm so sorry for you loss. My deepest condolences for you and your family.

Losing someone you love it probable the worst thing that can happen, but the good news is time will heal the pain.

Try to focus on his life, not his death. Remember him for the wonderful person he was. Talk about him with your family and friends, even if it makes you cry. Crying is a natural way of dealing with your emotions and it's nothing to be ashamed off. Also, don't feel guilty if something funny happens and you laugh. Talk about nice memories of your grandpa when you want to, but also don't be afraid to talk about something entirely else too. That's the first step to living your life without him. Once the memorial service and funeral stuff are over you have to get back to your normal life. Talk about him when you want to, even if his death has been a long time ago, grieving takes time. Deal with this in your way, not the way you think you have to if that doesn't feel right for you.

Remember: focus on his life, not his death. Don't think of all the moment you miss with him, but of all the moments you shared with him.

I wish you and your family all the strength tomorrow and in all the hard days to come.

If you want to talk more, feel free to send me a message!

Lots of love,

Eline

Aww, that is sad. Don't try just forget about him, but just cry instead. With death, all you can really do to make yourself feel happier about it is just to cry until you can't cry anymore. And when you're done, tell yourself that he's in a better place, and try to move on.

when my sis died we all turned off everything and cried together this lasted fo a long time i think you and your family need to be together and remember him

omg...you are bringing back nightmares that came true!!!!!!!!im crying now!!!!!!!!i cant help you now...but time will heal it..


sometimes all you can do is laugh to keep yourself from crying..

I'm really sorry...I don't have much to say except cry for a while then go on...Hope it helped....and again, I'm sorry...

hii i really am sorry!
but you know what this happened to me like 4 years ago and im still not over it... but the good news is it doesnt hurt!XD look i really can't give you any advice saying do this do that but i can say is that the easiest way to move on is to cry... if you can't cry it makes it worse so jst let all your feelings out and make sure none are left in. Ohhh and (if your christian or a religion that you pray) i found it helped that when i prayed at night or whenever (im not very religious) i prayed to my grandad aswell!XD

I hope that helped and im sorry for your loss!