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what do you do when your best friend in the whole world moves away?

i am best friends with this girl sam. we have been best friends for like 2 years and tomorrow she is moving away and i wont see her for months. i love her like a sister and i cant picture life with out her. i sit next to her in most of my classes and now every time i sit in those classes there will be an empty seat next to me. i am bad at making so i only have like 4 and none of my other friends could replace her. can you help me not feel so sad and alone with out sam?? i really would apriciate it. thanks.
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i really hope some one answers me soon because i am becoming really depressed. well more then my usually depressed self. i am sorry i sound needy but i really need help. thank you. i feel so alone.
babyjay posted over a year ago
 babyjay posted over a year ago
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MizzUnperfect said:
Man i can relate to this cause thats what happened to one of my friends his name is Raul, he was like a brother to me. When he moved to another state i was so upset when he told me. But even though hes so far away now we still keep in touch. Over breaks at school and stuff he comes and visits we talk over the phone, text, email myspace and stuff. Even though your friend Sam is moving away you guys can still find a way to communicate. I know it wont be the same but texting or talkin over the phone will make it seem like shes right there next to you. If you two are true friends everything will work out and no matter what you wont lose touch. Usually when your best friend moves its kinda hard to make new friends but try because it will distract you from missing her. By making new friends it doesnt mean your replacing her, your just simple getting a chance to know other people. I went through this to and yeah you may feel upset for a while but the pain will go away. You'll find the courage to do things even though shes gone, at school you may feel alone but once again you wont be if you guys find a way to communicate. So yeah. Idk if this helped but i gave it a shot lol. =)
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hikaru13 said:
Yeah, try to keep in touch with Sam. I really agree with what MizzUnperfect said, because it really helps (I've tried it with my old friend Kosuke). Go out and meet other people. Try new sports. Explore new things. Keep Sam in your thoughts. Send letters or call her or something. You might not feel so lonely.
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Hope this helps! :) And you could always talk to me, I guess
hikaru13 posted over a year ago
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this helpes a lot.... both of you. thank you so much
babyjay posted over a year ago
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