Kian 'The Vampire Diaries cast on the TV Guide yacht'

As a reader of these novels, it is clear to me that the connection between Damon and Bonnie in the novels is significantly more organic and real then the connection between Damon and Elena. The connection between Damon and Bonnie feels "real" whenever I read it on paper and I feel like I am reading an epic love story unfolding when I read Bamon scenes within these books. However, on the complete contrary, I NEVER get this same feeling whenever I read the scenes with Delena in the books. There is just something about the connection between Damon/Elena that is just not "right". I really cannot...