on season 2 episode 19, what is your opinion when stefan said to damon, that damon will never had elena's respect?

My opinion on why Stefan said to Elena, was Stefan's reaction. Stefan has put up with Damon's hints and adoration for Elena.

But, Damon pushed him a little too far in the last episode. And I can understand why Stefan would suddenly speak up. People are saying he was a jerk for doing that, but on the contrary, he was standing up to Damon. Damon is always aggravating Stefan. And last night, Damon went a little too far. Stefan wasn't okay with that. So he spoke up. One of the few times he has ever done that do Damon.

People say Stefan's a pussy but he's not. He just chooses to do what is right. Damon tries but usually fails.

What Stefan meant about "respect" is what I understand to be his morals. Stefan chooses not to kill to survive. He tries not to manipulate others. Whereas Damon manipulates Andy and drinks her for his pleasure. That is something Elena can never respect.

I dnt understand how stefan says Damon doesn't have elena's respect. She knows why he does what he does she understands and she goes to him during drastic measures. How do not have respect for someone like that?

i think it was just to make him mad.

I think Stefan said it to make Damon angry. If you think about, he does have Elena's respect and trust to a certain measure(not fully) She goes to Damon when things get really awful and she understands what he does.

he put up with damon even though he knew damons feelings for elena and i feel that he might have said it out of anger, but in reality, stefan dosent just do crap to piss people off.

what is excatally is feed up with damon?? what damon walking way from THE LOVE OF HIS LIFE,so she can be happy and safe,or damon always saving her life and protcating her,is feed up with that?? he was so out of line all damon say what was runing in stefan head,stefan tottaly desrved that punch and more

Phha...Stefan is obviously blind. Damon has Elena's respect. And without him she would be dead. Just like Damon said to Stefan:'You see, that's why I didn't tell you. Cause you would have never been able to do it. Don't get me wrong, Stefan. I don't mind being a bad guy. I'll make all the life and death desicions, while you're busy worrying about collateral damage. I'll even let her hate me for it. But at the end of the day, I'll be the one to keep her alive.'