So after last night’s episode I was pretty pissed off at Stefan to say the least. He punched Damon for what? Kissing Elena? Because he wanted his brother to choose him over Elena? Ok, I’ll give the latter one some thought but it enrages me that no one seems to get both Stefan and Damon except for a few people. I am fully aware that both Stefan and Damon need each other, but what Stefan needs more then Elena is DAMON. He has always been loved by EVERYONE except for his brother, and he really wants Damon to choose him. Stefan doesn’t need Elena’s love, as you can see her love she held out to him for the past 9 episodes have been a waste. He needs his BROTHER’S LOVE, NOT ELENA’S. Why do you think he reacted so strongly to the kiss? I am extremely bipolar on this subject but after reading an article my friend showed me I understand why Stefan did what he did. He wants his brother’s love more then anything BUT that doesn’t mean Damon has to give up Elena in order for the DS bond to reform. Elena is the person who brought Stefan and Damon closer together. She is the glue that held them together in S1. Without her, who knows what would have became of the brothers. That being said, while I believe that Stefan needs family love, no brotherly love, I believe, honestly, that brotherly love is NOT enough for Damon. TBH Damon can live without Stefan in his life, he did for nearly 15 years. What Damon needs is both brotherly love AND the love from a woman. That is what his whole character is about!! Finding love, and I believe he has found that in Elena. She is nothing like Katherine and knows how fragile Damon really is. All he wants is to be loved but everyone has already chosen Stefan:( That is what breaks my heart. Nobody chooses Damon, they always go for the younger brother. I’m sure Damon will be happy when he and his brother finally rebuild their bond, but that is not all Damon needs. He needs two kinds of love: Family love and romantic love. Stefan can clearly see that Damon loves Elena, so I’m PRAYING by the end of this show, Stefan will give DE his blessing and Damon will finally be TRULY happy with the two loves of his life: Stefan and Elena.

And if you don’t agree, then fuck you. Because wait and see, DS and DE will be endgame and it will be the most beautiful thing in the world. End of.