In my opnion when it comes to friendship it means that you and the people you care about stick together for periods of time until you get to know one another.
However, not a lot of people are like this. In my case, I may have over a dozen fans but a percentage of them even talk to me nor do they know who I am and what I meant to be on here for. Don't get me wrong a few of the fans I have are very nice to me. Whenver I talk to them I always feel welcomed, safe, secured, and better. But when I am being treated unfairly or being abused or played around it makes me angry, sad, depressed, and unhappy.
I am not making this article to hate everyone but I am just expressing myself to you all out there- the minute you try to make friends with somebody most of the friends you make will evenutally move on and leave you behind, ripping you apart like a lion with a wildebeest. You may think I am going to leave you but I never will: I never forget someone once I have talked to them or have meet them before. I always try to be on here all the time for my friends and most of the time I make it while there are times when I don't even make it or I may not want to come because I know I will get treated unfairly like what most people do to me all the time. It's just not fair to treat friends this way.
Again I do not mean to start any arguments or diagreeing or agreeing here. I am only expressing myself because I think what these so called "fans" are doing to each other and towards me is unfair. We come on to have fun not to be abused. :( So the choice is yours- you can choose to be a bad person and just come on Fanpop and ignore the ones you care about dearly or be like me and the rest of my other great friens and just come on for the joy and for talking to the ones that mean dearly to you. But the choice you make depends on the kind of person you are. I am a good person because I know I am. I give away gifts, I create gifts for my friends, I talk to them, come on for their sakes if they need help or have troubles with something or if they simply need a person who can listen to them. I am all of that and I am always online for them.
Just take a pieace of the page from my book- friends are harder to find in this world especially friends that you can relate to or trust. I have a diffcult time finding the right friends, but I know I have them with me. They are the great ones because they understand me better and they know what I am looking for. I am not looking for someone who likes the stuff I do- even though that is what friends are about but it's not the only thing I am looking for. What I am looking for as well are the kind of people that I can talk with and even express my proublems and feelings to. I know I have my family with me to express my issues too but they don't quite understand certain boundries. I am happy they are there for me and I always am happy to have them but I need some other good people besides them and that is why I come on here- to make as many great friends as I possibly can to feel happy and welcomed. :) It's not about the attention, it's about the sake of the many faces here on Fanpop.
This is my story and I hope you all will learn something from me- it's not easy being the nice responsiable one in the group, but being reasonable and kind is what gets us going in life. It's always best to do what is right rather than do what is wrong. The right choices you make will effect the sake of your friends. I know I am happy being a nice person and a great friend for my friends. I love my Fanpop pals with all of my heart and I would never trade anything for them. I wouldn't even give up on them. If it weren't for them, I would be nothing. But just learn from what I have gone through: it's not always easy to make trust in somebody unless you get to know them better first. But if they ignore you or go off doing their own thing then they are no better than any of you and I. Again, not being instuling about all of you just saying.
However, not a lot of people are like this. In my case, I may have over a dozen fans but a percentage of them even talk to me nor do they know who I am and what I meant to be on here for. Don't get me wrong a few of the fans I have are very nice to me. Whenver I talk to them I always feel welcomed, safe, secured, and better. But when I am being treated unfairly or being abused or played around it makes me angry, sad, depressed, and unhappy.
I am not making this article to hate everyone but I am just expressing myself to you all out there- the minute you try to make friends with somebody most of the friends you make will evenutally move on and leave you behind, ripping you apart like a lion with a wildebeest. You may think I am going to leave you but I never will: I never forget someone once I have talked to them or have meet them before. I always try to be on here all the time for my friends and most of the time I make it while there are times when I don't even make it or I may not want to come because I know I will get treated unfairly like what most people do to me all the time. It's just not fair to treat friends this way.
Again I do not mean to start any arguments or diagreeing or agreeing here. I am only expressing myself because I think what these so called "fans" are doing to each other and towards me is unfair. We come on to have fun not to be abused. :( So the choice is yours- you can choose to be a bad person and just come on Fanpop and ignore the ones you care about dearly or be like me and the rest of my other great friens and just come on for the joy and for talking to the ones that mean dearly to you. But the choice you make depends on the kind of person you are. I am a good person because I know I am. I give away gifts, I create gifts for my friends, I talk to them, come on for their sakes if they need help or have troubles with something or if they simply need a person who can listen to them. I am all of that and I am always online for them.
Just take a pieace of the page from my book- friends are harder to find in this world especially friends that you can relate to or trust. I have a diffcult time finding the right friends, but I know I have them with me. They are the great ones because they understand me better and they know what I am looking for. I am not looking for someone who likes the stuff I do- even though that is what friends are about but it's not the only thing I am looking for. What I am looking for as well are the kind of people that I can talk with and even express my proublems and feelings to. I know I have my family with me to express my issues too but they don't quite understand certain boundries. I am happy they are there for me and I always am happy to have them but I need some other good people besides them and that is why I come on here- to make as many great friends as I possibly can to feel happy and welcomed. :) It's not about the attention, it's about the sake of the many faces here on Fanpop.
This is my story and I hope you all will learn something from me- it's not easy being the nice responsiable one in the group, but being reasonable and kind is what gets us going in life. It's always best to do what is right rather than do what is wrong. The right choices you make will effect the sake of your friends. I know I am happy being a nice person and a great friend for my friends. I love my Fanpop pals with all of my heart and I would never trade anything for them. I wouldn't even give up on them. If it weren't for them, I would be nothing. But just learn from what I have gone through: it's not always easy to make trust in somebody unless you get to know them better first. But if they ignore you or go off doing their own thing then they are no better than any of you and I. Again, not being instuling about all of you just saying.
