Damon & Elena Article: A Bamon Fan's Response to 'People Hating On Ian' (I Come In Peace)

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A Bamon Fan's Response to 'People Hating On Ian' (I Come In Peace)

posted by ducky8abug

A Fan's Response to 'People Hating On Ian'

Hi,

The author of 'People Hating on Ian' has adopted the notion that opinions diverging from her own are nothing more than disgruntled attacks. I disagree.

We're all TVD fans and we can agree that we all love the show to a fault. In fact, I think TVD fans are some of the most passionate fans out there and quite frankly, that's great; but I don't want to see that passion manifest itself into something its not. I don't want to see it manifest into this accusatory system pitting one faction against the other. Trust me, it isn't necessary. A lot of us (including myself) can do a lot better than that.

Anyway, where was I...expressing one's displeasure with an actor/actress' past performances or a character's past transgressions is not an admission of hostility or hate but a way in which one can express their feelings about the overall direction of the show/characters. Many of us, including myself, may use unorthodox methods to get that message across but in no way is it indicative of some deep-seeded hostility towards the actors themselves.

Please keep that in mind when addressing statements, posts or articles by other fans (or by me for that matter). Speaking of which, a link to a Bamon article may give readers (within this forum) the impressions that something foul is afoot. I'm here to assure you all that none could be further from the truth. The article and the replies it received are nothing more than expounded opinions.

Anyway, thank you for reading.

TheExcorcist, HollyMarie and 3 others like this

katie15 Thanks for sharing. Though I have seen your comments on CW boards and some HAVE been personal attacks on posters. But thanks for trying to reassure us.

INLOVEWITHDAMON Firstly I would like to thank you for being respectful. Secondly I would like to once again elaborate on the fact that my frustration was not JUST based on that article. There was a whole different kind of drama on twitter yesterday regarding Ian as well. If other people chose to bring that article in the discussion that's their business, and it's separate from my thoughts. I never called out any individuals. You say it's not hostility towards the actors, but I say that's exactly what it is. Placing blame on the actor who doesn't share your view is wrong in my opinion. I think it was just yesterday when I saw someone here call JP a bitch and I asked them not to do that. I don't like it when any shippers try to place blame on the actors and writers, especially the actors, considering they have no control over what happens in the show. It's like people sending hate tweets to Kat after "Isobel" all over again. Anyway I understand that you don't agree with my premise so I'm not going to try to convince you of otherwise.

ducky8abug @Katie15: Yes, guilty as charged. I called all DE fans 'obnoxious little freaks.' I thought it was the best tactic against some unwarranted comments in a S/E thread. Not my finest moment, but none that could be helped at the moment. Anyway, thank you for reading and please keep in mind that we're all here to celebrate the awesomeness that is TVD.

ducky8abug @INLOVEWITHDAMON: I'm always respectful, even when appearances prove false. Anyway, your take on the article is a matter of interpretation. When we express our thoughts, some rely on emotion while others use objectivity. I lean towards the latter. I read that article and interpreted it as the author's displeasure in Ian's performances. Her article and subsequent replies revealed that she was displeased with Ian's past performances. She thought his performances were not as passionate in Season 2 as they were in Season 1. If you go back and re-read not only the article but the replies she received as well as her responses, you'll note that her answers correlate with what I am posting now. In fact, if you'd like, you are more than free to re-direct your attention to that article and review past statements. I guarantee there is nothing ingenious or hostile about it.

Aubreykarew I cant understand some sentences and words in d article but i dont like anyone bashing actors :(

ducky8abug @Aubreykarew: I understand and of course, you're free to feel that way. I look towards all opinions as a door towards ideas I've never even considered. Others may see it differently. Either way, its all good.

MissAllisonLove This is just too much. it's a free world

katie15 [i]This is just too much. it's a free world[/i] And your imput was needed because? ...

loveofdelena yeah, where trying to have a civil conversation here, and you should respect that, like your fellow shipper.

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Dopple Crossed Chapter 7 part 2

posted by HaleyDewit

Bonnie walked with her plate to a table and wanted to start eating when she felt a pair of eyes burning in her back. She looked up and saw Keith standing next to her shooting her a meaningful glance. Bonnie, not wanting to be rude, waved at the seat opposite of her. Keith walked around the table, put his plate down and sank on the chair.
“Keith Dason” Keith introduced himself. Bonnie accepted his hand. “Bonnie Bennett” she said. She started eating.
Keith, however, didn’t touch his food, but kept staring at Bonnie. Bonnie looked up, feeling uneasy. She swallowed.
“Why, eh, why are...

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My First Kiss CH 2

posted by yasmeen40

Chapter Title : I Give You Pain & Pleasure

Triple Shot - i own NOTHING of TVD

I need a mintute just to get to you , I feel like I might be getting through

Come over and say Nothing , Silence is everything

( Aly & Aj – Silence )

The morning came too early for Damon 'cause he knew his answer would announced realy soon , probably today knowing how stubborn Elena can be .

After showering and getting ready , he heard a knock on on his door he thought ( WoW ! she wants her answers very badly I see )

He decided against wearing the pants and shirt in his hand and just greeting her in his black boxers...

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The Host Chapter 4 Soundtrack (general clips)

posted by HaleyDewit

1)link (4x01, Caroline being angry with Stefan)
2)link (4x02, Bonnie visiting Damon)
3)link (4x03, Jeremy and Elena talking about Bonnie and Damon)
4)link (4x04, Katherine threatening Bonnie)
5)link (4x05, Katherine trying to alert Elena)
6)link (4x06, Stefan and Amber talking)
7)link (4x07, Bonnie punishing Damon)
8)link (4x08, Katherine thinking about Stefan)
9)link (4x09, Klaus sending the vampires away, but keeping Amber with him)
10)link (4X10, Katherine and Bonnie fighting)

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The Host Chapter 17 part 5

posted by HaleyDewit

“What is this?” Jeremy pointed at the spell book.
“That, my dear Jeremy” Bonnie said in a sugar-sweet voice as she walked downstairs. “would be my spell book. You know, the book with spells?”
“Since when are you into this whole voodoo crap?” he asked, referring to the doll.
“Well, because it’s fun, Jeremy” Bonnie pulled her shoulders. “It’s fun to see him flounder like a fish on land. It’s fun to be able to hurt him and see and hear him screaming, even though I’m not around”
Jeremy frowned. “He? Who he?”
Bonnie held her head diagonally. “Oh my sweet Jeremy,...

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The Host Chapter 15 part 7

posted by HaleyDewit

“Can you repeat…basically everything you just said?”
Katherine told Damon what she heard in Caroline’s room.
“You spied on my friends. That’s rude” Elena said shocked.
“That’s not the point, Elena” Damon said, raising his hand to silence her. “Are they really going to try to set me up with that piece of nothing?”
“Hey, those are my best friends you’re talking about” Elena said upset.
“Elena, shush” Katherine said as if she was talking to a dog. She looked back at Damon. “Caroline will call you at 7pm and she will tell you that Elena wants to meet you at her...

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posted by LilSweetsOmega

Hi Delena shippers, this is my thought on why Elena should be with Damon! hope u like x <3

I can't see why she still LOVES Stefan after all he's done for her wich is NOTHING really, compared to what Damon's done for her, he's rescued her to many times to count, like the car crash (1#fave Delena moment.
He actually proects her as he doesn't go with what Elena says, like with the sacrifise Stefan was just going to let Elena, HIS GIRLFRIEND risk her life with a 80 percent chance she would die just because it was her desision. Whereas Damon knew that she was gunna die and he didn't want to...

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Delena

posted by DelenaDiaries

Alright, Delena. Now when I first began watching The Vampire Diaries I was totally into the whole SE thing. I loved Stefan and I thought nothing could go wrong with him. And then I saw episode 11, when Damon saved Elena from her car after the accident (or crash more like, I don't think it was meant to be an accident). I sorta knew it was coming when Damon kissed "Elena" (Katherine) on the porch. Of course it wouldn't have been abnormal if it really had been Elena.
I began understanding how Damon truly was a good person inside and how he, like anyone else, deserves love. Damon cares ultimately...

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The Host Chapter 9 part 1

posted by HaleyDewit

Stefan walked downstairs, Katherine following him. When he was downstairs she grabbed his arm and forced him to turn around. “Do you now finally believe me?” she said pissed off and shocked. “If your Bonnie sweetheart is so kind that wouldn’t have happened” she pointed upstairs.
“I know, Katherine, I know” Stefan said. “I was wrong. I’m sorry, I should’ve trust you” “You should’ve trust Damon” Katherine pointed out.
“I know” Stefan repeated. He paced through the room. “Is there anything we can do to make it stop? And what exactly is wrong with Elena? Because...

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The Host Chapter 8 part 6

posted by HaleyDewit

Kelsey poked her sister to wake her up. Amber opened her eyes and looked around. They were still in the woods and seemed to have spend the night there. Kelsey pulled her sister up and dragged her with her.
“What’s the rush?” Amber asked surprised by Kelsey’s speed.
“We need to get you somewhere safe” Kelsey said agitated, not slowing down.
“Why? Okay, I know I have to be careful for the sheriff and vampire hunters, but I’m not going to get myself caught” Amber said.
“Trust me, the sheriff’s the least of your worries right now” Kelsey said. She ran even faster. “What...

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The Host Chapter 7 part 6

posted by HaleyDewit

“I still can’t believe you killed him”
Amber and Kelsey were hiding in the woods.
“And I can’t believe you just drained him” Kelsey fired back. Amber shrugged. “You know what I am, what did you expect?”
“Who turned you?” Kelsey asked.
“Some guy named Stefan, why?” Amber said. Kelsey’s eyes widened. “Stefan Salvatore?” “Yeah” “You got involved with a Salvatore? Are you out of your mind?”
“I didn’t get involved with him! He got involved with me. He attacked me. And why are you so upset about him being a Salvatore?” Amber asked uncomprehending.
“The...

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The Host Chapter 7 part 2

posted by HaleyDewit

Damon was sitting on his knees, in his cell, his hands chained above his head. Bonnie sat behind him and stroke with her middle finger over his naked back. It was pitch dark, but somehow she managed to see everything she needed to.
There was a small jar of a colorless liquid next to her. She dipped her index finger in it and pulled it out again. She waited five unbearable seconds wherein she could hear Damon’s hectic breathing. She placed her finger on his shoulder blade and starting from there she formed letters. Though Damon only groaned, she saw him grasping the chains and pull his back,...

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The Host Chapter 3 part 9

posted by HaleyDewit

Caroline was in her mom’s study room she used to do some paperwork, searching Amber Lindy’s file. After what Matt told her it was easy to put the pieces together. A girl she had never seen before and who could hear everything? A girl who could drink without having to show her id? It was close to obvious who this chick was, but Caroline wanted proof before she informed Damon and Elena… and Katherine.
“What are you doing here?” Caroline turned around. Her mother was in the doorway, an austerely expression on her face. “Nothing” Caroline said fast, too fast. She raced to her mom...

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Delena Chapter 10

posted by DelenaLove1

Chapter 10 Heartache

Elena's POV

My eyes slowly fluttered open and I slowly sat up in shock, looking around the room I was in and then at my body. I was fully clothed, wearing a pink shirt with skinny jeans. I slowly climbed off the bed I was on with surprising ease. All the pain I was feeling before had vanished and my strength has returned. Who saved me? Where was Delena? Was she safe? All these thoughts and more ran through my head as I ran my hand lightly on the golden top of the huge dresser.

I snapped my head up as the closed door infront of me opened, revealing my savior. My breath got...

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Delena Chapter 8

posted by DelenaLove1

Delena Chapter 8 Torture Continues

Elena looked up into Damon's face, fear taking over her body. Damon just smirked sinisterly. "We're gonna have so much fun."

"Get out of my husband's head you MONSTER!" Elena screamed as she slapped Damon hard across the head.

Damon slowly moved his head into upright position, glaring daggers at Elena. "That wasn't very nice." He grabbed Elena and started chaining her up to the wall.

Elena screamed as she thrashed and kicked at him, trying to get away but to no avail. Damon successfully chained her to the wall and let an evil smile cross his face.

Klaus let a joyous...

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3- Shadowdancing...

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Why Damon and Elena Are Better Than Stefan and Elena

posted by DelenaNianlover

I'm new here and I just wanted to share my views on why Damon and Elena NEED to be together. I wrote this for a friend to persuade her to join Delena, and this speech worked. I hope you like it.

Okay, so my speech consists of many parts. My first part is how they first met. Damon was just lying in the road, looking for his next meal, when Elena comes and talks and he hears her voice. He goes up to and say “Katherine?” “No, I’m Elena.” She replies. With that it takes him three seconds to find out that Elena is indeed Elena and not Katherine. (Even though he probably could have...