Sex and Sexuality Article: Sex: From a 14 year old

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posted by ImBooOK

Hi! I'm fourteen years old and yes, a girl.
I am in my 2nd year in my local High school.
what i want to say is in my 2 years i had seen a lot of (and reported) sexual abuse. Teens my age are not thinking when it comes to sex. Sure i may think about it, or even..want it. But at my age it is certainly NOT OK.
All I am saying is to the other teens (Boy or girl) that you can love someone, just wait until your 18. (also i suggest when you meet the right person and your SURE) Because that's when you can actually have it Legally.
My friend was abused by her boyfriend 2 months ago and he is STILL in jail. (he was over 18)

Another thing.
I am young, and I honestly am embarrassed to ask this question.
If i had desires to (MM...lets go with "Pleasure") myself what is the best way to do it without hurting myself or causing any pain?

I appreciate for those you took time to read this, and may you have a blessed new life in 2011!

geekygirl1999, irena83 and 2 others like this

Ninja-Kitten I'm 14 too, and I agree with what you're saying, but you shouldn't generalize that teens our age aren't thinking when it comes to sex. I teach safe sex courses for extra credit, I'm thinking, so are my students.

Merribelle I agree with Lexa ^ As for your question, fingers work well :P The clit is the pleasure centre, so you'll get lots of feeling there. You might have to get used to the feeling, and the time it takes to climax varies from person to person :) (I get stuck teaching the masturbation part of the safe sex course that Ninja-Kitten's talking about)

ImBooOK again must i say it was centered for those who KNOW what they are doing is wrong. for those who DONT think. i know lots of girl who DO THINK and are very mature in what they do. as for that, thank you for your answer i appreciate it. :)

Ninja-Kitten You should be more careful in phrasing your articles, maybe a disclaimer saying something about how you're only talking about the people that don't think? Otherwise it's very easy to assume that you're addressing all of us. And Trix, I'm SORRY you got stuck with it! You should have asked to switch! :P

ImBooOK i should write my articles any way i want. i also can state an opinion like you can. i wrote this in the direction to who i wanted it to be, its your own fault for misreading my statements.

ImBooOK if you know your mature and responseable and you know girls who are the same way dont think im talking to them because i am not.

CornChips If I may intrude, how is she addressing every 14 when she's speaking about the ones who don't wait to have sex? If she said all 14 years are having sex and not waiting, then you can say something. :/ _______________ I can't help you there since I don't like that kind of thing lol.

ImBooOK Thank you, Cornchips:) Thats exactly what i am getting at. -does Secret super ninja assassin dance- ....

Ninja-Kitten "Teens my age are not thinking when it comes to sex" That's just an incorrect statement...

ImBooOK Hmm, but what im getting at is the "teens my age arnt thinking" yes some of them do, but the ones who are careless are not.

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