You don’t know what you get yourself into, and the worst part is that you never can see or feel how it hurts you until everything is over, until that moment when you go too far happens and you realize what you did. And so you promise that it’s over, but over time you go back to it, slowly and assuredly. Then you’re caught, or you reach your limit again, and you say you’re done again. Then you say that you’ll make sure not to slip up, but eventually you do, and it becomes normal. And over time it’s all you can think about, and even if you don’t want to do it, you end up putting it into whatever you make. And no matter how much you say you’re under control, to keep doing it is to let it control you.
I’m addressing this and posting it on this club because it’s an issue, and for worse reasons than it would be if we were all complete adults. Most of the people on this site range from ages 12 to 17. Minors. And once you become 18 you will be legally, or morally, allowed to do this sort of thing.
I am of course talking about porn, and sexuality in general. To anyone who wants to tell me that I’m overreacting, or that I simply don’t understand, you have to know what I’ve been through personally before you can tell me that.
Porn is a problem, on the internet, and in real life. And the worst part about it isn’t that young teens, or teens in general, are watching it, no, the worst part is that they’re the ones MAKING it. And we know it so well don’t we? We can think and write and draw each specific act of this in detail and accuracy because we researched porn. When we click on that window, and watch that video, read that article, look at that image, we are learning the traits and everything about it, and the essay to show we know is when we make it ourselves.
Let me go to the source of this. We all have sexual urges, and these are not bad on their own, but they should only be for the person we have married. If that were not the case we would not have virginity. You lose your virginity to the person that you have married and love.
You may ask “But what if they’ve gotten divorced or one died?” “For Better or for worse. Till death do us part.” Marriage is for life, and divorce is in itself a sin. And to marry in an unstable relationship does not justify that. You marry for love, and if it’s not real love or you have doubts, divorce is not the answer.
You can only get married once ONCE, there is not second first marriage. And no matter how bad the marriage this person is someone you agreed to spend your life with. You have to fight to learn to love this person even if you didn’t. And so in the same way you only have ONE first time having sex. You can only lose your virginity once. Are you willing to lose it to someone who is just there on the fly? It comes after not before.
Think of the person who you are having sex with. It being their first, they are giving away their virginity to someone who they have not married. They are willingly giving up something precious. Are you willing to take it from them? To indulge them in something that they can’t get back?
No one will ever know if they will always love someone, even after marriage, but wouldn’t you like to give yourself to the person you said “I do” to at the altar, instead of someone you may or may not live your whole life with?
People that live together but are not married, do so because they do not want to be committed. If you aren’t married, yet living with someone, you can do whatever and not get in legal trouble. You can leave that person behind, even after getting them pregnant. When you are married it’s different. You have a responsibility to stay with that person and take care of them, the child, put up with them, help them to put up with you, and remember that you can’t back out. You can always back out when not married.
So, porn. This is what draws you in. It doesn’t matter if you aren’t looking for it, or are simply putting up with it, it will get you. But you can choose to risk it or avoid it. It can be very annoying when there’s a movie you want to see but it has something you don’t want to be exposed to, but is it worth it? Is it worth it to risk watching something that could impurify your mind simply because you really wanted to see that movie?
These kinds of images will never leave your sight. You will never forget them. And they will fill your mind up until there is no more room for anything else. It doesn’t matter how much you’ve exposed yourself to already, adding on to it will make it worse, and you can stop yourself.
If someone asks you to make something sexual, a sex scene, as a comic, a picture, a story, or an animation, they are asking you to do three things that are off-limits.
~The first is that they are asking you to create something that you will remember every detail of that will stick in your mind and stay with you for your whole life.
~The second is that they are asking you to create something that will destroy their mind, morals, and very probably their personal life.
~The third is that they are asking you to create something that will either scar people on the internet who see it by accident for life and damage their purity, or it will continue to ruin the lives of people that already have exposed themselves to that sort of thing. For those that are now flashed by your porn, did you get their permission to have what you made pop up out of nowhere? I don’t say this in a tone of anger, I say it in urgency. These people, like it or not, are going to accidentally or purposely find these creations of pornography. They will find what you created and you will have to live with the fact that you didn’t say no when you could have.
People don’t have to learn about reproduction from watching girls getting slimy tentacles down their throats (And let me emphasize how much tentacle rapes are tentacle RAPES, to all of those who watch them and plan to have a girlfriend in their life. It’s not going to be a “Ha ha you watch(ed) those? Yeah that’s played for laughs.”). Who should tell them then? No not teachers in school when they are thirteen-sixteen years old (and that’s pushing it to me), but by their parents when they are READY to be told. And if they don’t have parents, then their guardians.
Minors, because yes we are minors, we are still children and we do not know what is best in the world compared to the experience of our parents, can you turn to your dad or mom or guardian or sibling, can you pick up your eight-year-old sister and say “Hey look at this”, and send waves of sex-tapes into their heads, without feeling guilty? If you can you have my pity but if you really find something like that to be okay, then I am, and many others will/would be, disgusted. Do we want to be? Do I say that out of hate? No. I say that because it’s the truth.
People should not be making porn in general, but for thirteen-year-olds, fourteen, fifteen, sixteen, seventeen, making porn, what drove you to that? I don’t mean to say I don’t know why, I simply would like to know the specific reason. Was it because it’s cool? Was it because you want to fantasize about your own character impurely? Was it a request? And what do I mean when I say “IT WILL DESTROY YOUR SOUUUUUUL! OOGA BOOGA BOOGA!!”?
I mean that one day it won’t be enough and you’ll need something real instead of your online porn. So you will go out and PAY for it, or even worse, DEMAND or TAKE it yourself.
I am not clean. I will not sugar coat this. I have seen and watched porn, I have fallen victim to it myself on many occasions, so yes, I know what I’m talking about. And people have found out about it before. Not even recently have they found out. I was once in a situation where there was a computer in front of me at someone’s house. I was alone. I did wrong that day, and not only did my parents find out, but the person who owned the house.
When I was punished, none of it amounted to the amount of guilt and terror I felt. I had willingly exposed myself to the impurity and even worse, the person who found out was exposed to it as well because of the history she found on the computer. That was my fault, I did that. It was because of that temptation that I was not only not paid for the job I was supposed to do, but people would now know me as a kid who watched porn in someone’s house when they weren’t home.
And do you know how old I was? Twelve. Do you know young I was when I first started exposing myself? Eleven. I’m many years older than that now, and I’ve exposed myself to much worse. The rapes, the weird hypno stuff, and many in between.
I understand that many of you think (thought) that I was always on the straight path. You didn’t think I was “pure” but you thought that I never strayed from my Christian morals. I have.
I’ve cussed, before
I’ve watched porn, before
I’ve attacked people, before
I’ve lied, I’ve been jealous, and I’ve been VERY prideful, before.
So understand when I say this,
I know what I’m talking about, and none of it is exaggerated. Do you think that that was the end of it? That I learned my lesson after that one time getting caught? No, and you know what that’s like don’t you, if you’ve exposed yourself to porn.
This article is not at ALL a “Holier than thou” message, it is a plead, me on my knees, BEGGING EVERYONE to please restrain yourselves. Find ways to limit yourself from seeing those things. If you feel temptation, flee, run, do anything to distract yourself from it.
If you are for women’s rights, don’t write about tentacle porn, if you are a girl, don’t support it. If you are trying to show that men aren’t pigs, don’t write about hot men being in control of brothels, if you are a boy, don’t EVER think about having sex with the one you are with until you are married.
Our Club, Sonic Fan Characters, was attacked with porn pictures many times before. And the pictures were not just forced-sex, they were casual, and intimate. When that popped up everyone freaked out, and tried to get rid of it. But then I see articles, or other pictures, just as bad, where the same people are casually commenting about how good the art work or writing is, while ignoring how morally bad it is. Was this because the former was a troll? Was it because it was spam? That should not have been the main reason.
I don’t want you to respect this article, I don’t want you to tell me that you can respect my opinion, and I don’t want you to ask me to respect yours. Some things you can’t stand by and watch ruin people, and I have stood by and seen it ruin people, many, times. I want this considered, and then acted on. You don’t need porn. It’s just a “seasoning” to make things seem more interesting and hardcore, but all it really is, is hypnotic colors drawing you in, to the slaughter house, whether you are a sheep, a pig, or the shepherd leading the animals to it.
Please,
PLEASE,
Do not let it in.
I’m addressing this and posting it on this club because it’s an issue, and for worse reasons than it would be if we were all complete adults. Most of the people on this site range from ages 12 to 17. Minors. And once you become 18 you will be legally, or morally, allowed to do this sort of thing.
I am of course talking about porn, and sexuality in general. To anyone who wants to tell me that I’m overreacting, or that I simply don’t understand, you have to know what I’ve been through personally before you can tell me that.
Porn is a problem, on the internet, and in real life. And the worst part about it isn’t that young teens, or teens in general, are watching it, no, the worst part is that they’re the ones MAKING it. And we know it so well don’t we? We can think and write and draw each specific act of this in detail and accuracy because we researched porn. When we click on that window, and watch that video, read that article, look at that image, we are learning the traits and everything about it, and the essay to show we know is when we make it ourselves.
Let me go to the source of this. We all have sexual urges, and these are not bad on their own, but they should only be for the person we have married. If that were not the case we would not have virginity. You lose your virginity to the person that you have married and love.
You may ask “But what if they’ve gotten divorced or one died?” “For Better or for worse. Till death do us part.” Marriage is for life, and divorce is in itself a sin. And to marry in an unstable relationship does not justify that. You marry for love, and if it’s not real love or you have doubts, divorce is not the answer.
You can only get married once ONCE, there is not second first marriage. And no matter how bad the marriage this person is someone you agreed to spend your life with. You have to fight to learn to love this person even if you didn’t. And so in the same way you only have ONE first time having sex. You can only lose your virginity once. Are you willing to lose it to someone who is just there on the fly? It comes after not before.
Think of the person who you are having sex with. It being their first, they are giving away their virginity to someone who they have not married. They are willingly giving up something precious. Are you willing to take it from them? To indulge them in something that they can’t get back?
No one will ever know if they will always love someone, even after marriage, but wouldn’t you like to give yourself to the person you said “I do” to at the altar, instead of someone you may or may not live your whole life with?
People that live together but are not married, do so because they do not want to be committed. If you aren’t married, yet living with someone, you can do whatever and not get in legal trouble. You can leave that person behind, even after getting them pregnant. When you are married it’s different. You have a responsibility to stay with that person and take care of them, the child, put up with them, help them to put up with you, and remember that you can’t back out. You can always back out when not married.
So, porn. This is what draws you in. It doesn’t matter if you aren’t looking for it, or are simply putting up with it, it will get you. But you can choose to risk it or avoid it. It can be very annoying when there’s a movie you want to see but it has something you don’t want to be exposed to, but is it worth it? Is it worth it to risk watching something that could impurify your mind simply because you really wanted to see that movie?
These kinds of images will never leave your sight. You will never forget them. And they will fill your mind up until there is no more room for anything else. It doesn’t matter how much you’ve exposed yourself to already, adding on to it will make it worse, and you can stop yourself.
If someone asks you to make something sexual, a sex scene, as a comic, a picture, a story, or an animation, they are asking you to do three things that are off-limits.
~The first is that they are asking you to create something that you will remember every detail of that will stick in your mind and stay with you for your whole life.
~The second is that they are asking you to create something that will destroy their mind, morals, and very probably their personal life.
~The third is that they are asking you to create something that will either scar people on the internet who see it by accident for life and damage their purity, or it will continue to ruin the lives of people that already have exposed themselves to that sort of thing. For those that are now flashed by your porn, did you get their permission to have what you made pop up out of nowhere? I don’t say this in a tone of anger, I say it in urgency. These people, like it or not, are going to accidentally or purposely find these creations of pornography. They will find what you created and you will have to live with the fact that you didn’t say no when you could have.
People don’t have to learn about reproduction from watching girls getting slimy tentacles down their throats (And let me emphasize how much tentacle rapes are tentacle RAPES, to all of those who watch them and plan to have a girlfriend in their life. It’s not going to be a “Ha ha you watch(ed) those? Yeah that’s played for laughs.”). Who should tell them then? No not teachers in school when they are thirteen-sixteen years old (and that’s pushing it to me), but by their parents when they are READY to be told. And if they don’t have parents, then their guardians.
Minors, because yes we are minors, we are still children and we do not know what is best in the world compared to the experience of our parents, can you turn to your dad or mom or guardian or sibling, can you pick up your eight-year-old sister and say “Hey look at this”, and send waves of sex-tapes into their heads, without feeling guilty? If you can you have my pity but if you really find something like that to be okay, then I am, and many others will/would be, disgusted. Do we want to be? Do I say that out of hate? No. I say that because it’s the truth.
People should not be making porn in general, but for thirteen-year-olds, fourteen, fifteen, sixteen, seventeen, making porn, what drove you to that? I don’t mean to say I don’t know why, I simply would like to know the specific reason. Was it because it’s cool? Was it because you want to fantasize about your own character impurely? Was it a request? And what do I mean when I say “IT WILL DESTROY YOUR SOUUUUUUL! OOGA BOOGA BOOGA!!”?
I mean that one day it won’t be enough and you’ll need something real instead of your online porn. So you will go out and PAY for it, or even worse, DEMAND or TAKE it yourself.
I am not clean. I will not sugar coat this. I have seen and watched porn, I have fallen victim to it myself on many occasions, so yes, I know what I’m talking about. And people have found out about it before. Not even recently have they found out. I was once in a situation where there was a computer in front of me at someone’s house. I was alone. I did wrong that day, and not only did my parents find out, but the person who owned the house.
When I was punished, none of it amounted to the amount of guilt and terror I felt. I had willingly exposed myself to the impurity and even worse, the person who found out was exposed to it as well because of the history she found on the computer. That was my fault, I did that. It was because of that temptation that I was not only not paid for the job I was supposed to do, but people would now know me as a kid who watched porn in someone’s house when they weren’t home.
And do you know how old I was? Twelve. Do you know young I was when I first started exposing myself? Eleven. I’m many years older than that now, and I’ve exposed myself to much worse. The rapes, the weird hypno stuff, and many in between.
I understand that many of you think (thought) that I was always on the straight path. You didn’t think I was “pure” but you thought that I never strayed from my Christian morals. I have.
I’ve cussed, before
I’ve watched porn, before
I’ve attacked people, before
I’ve lied, I’ve been jealous, and I’ve been VERY prideful, before.
So understand when I say this,
I know what I’m talking about, and none of it is exaggerated. Do you think that that was the end of it? That I learned my lesson after that one time getting caught? No, and you know what that’s like don’t you, if you’ve exposed yourself to porn.
This article is not at ALL a “Holier than thou” message, it is a plead, me on my knees, BEGGING EVERYONE to please restrain yourselves. Find ways to limit yourself from seeing those things. If you feel temptation, flee, run, do anything to distract yourself from it.
If you are for women’s rights, don’t write about tentacle porn, if you are a girl, don’t support it. If you are trying to show that men aren’t pigs, don’t write about hot men being in control of brothels, if you are a boy, don’t EVER think about having sex with the one you are with until you are married.
Our Club, Sonic Fan Characters, was attacked with porn pictures many times before. And the pictures were not just forced-sex, they were casual, and intimate. When that popped up everyone freaked out, and tried to get rid of it. But then I see articles, or other pictures, just as bad, where the same people are casually commenting about how good the art work or writing is, while ignoring how morally bad it is. Was this because the former was a troll? Was it because it was spam? That should not have been the main reason.
I don’t want you to respect this article, I don’t want you to tell me that you can respect my opinion, and I don’t want you to ask me to respect yours. Some things you can’t stand by and watch ruin people, and I have stood by and seen it ruin people, many, times. I want this considered, and then acted on. You don’t need porn. It’s just a “seasoning” to make things seem more interesting and hardcore, but all it really is, is hypnotic colors drawing you in, to the slaughter house, whether you are a sheep, a pig, or the shepherd leading the animals to it.
Please,
PLEASE,
Do not let it in.
