1) Girls (at the age of 15 or so) think about sex just as much as guys do... The only catch is some of us think about it for the emotional parts, and some of us like it for the physical parts. You'd be surprised who is in which group.
2)If you like us, tell us. Do not be worried about what we'll think, because we are flattered no matter if we like you or not.
3) Most of the time girls are 99% sure when a guy likes us. The only way to be 100% sure is if you tell us.
4) For some strange reason I've always found myself to become attracted to guys that like me. (Unless they're super creepy and stalk me!). But even if when you first tell me and I don't like you, chances are I will soon. I probably just never thought of you that way.
5) DON'T GIVE UP AFTER YOUR FIRST TRY!!!!!!!!! This is one fot he most annoying things guys can do. Maybe there's something going on that day, or I was just caught off guard, or I felt pressured and didn't think about it the first time you asked me, or maybe I just never thought of you like that. If you keep trying, and prove to the girl that you're serious, she will most likely go for you.
4) Going out of your way for us, makes a huge difference. I would never stay with a guy for long if he never tried. I mean, you don't have to cancel plans with your friend, but call us later that night, so we know you care.
5) Telling your guy friends how amazing we are, scores you major points.
6) We get really jealous when you hang around a bunch of other girls all the time.
7) We would rather you break up with us, than cheat on us. But if you decide to get back together with us afterwards, you have to tell us if you were with another girl.
8) Telling us a couple little white lies to make us happy is fine, but lying to us all the time will make us not trust you, and I promise you that's not a position you want to be in.
9) DON'T TELL YOUR GUY FRIENDS EVERYTHING WE SAY AND DO! If I give you a hicky and it's noticeable then you can tell them I gave it to you, but don't tell them everything else we did. One of my friends got slammed up against a wall with her boyfriend (kissing), and the next day she was so embarassed because her boyfriend told all of his friends and they kept making jokes about how he was showing us whose boss...
10) We do like you to show us who's boss (the slamming up against the wall thing is passionate and hot btw).
11) Add on to ^^^: You do have to be sweet though, you can't always expect us to do what you say. Coming up behind us at school and hugging us and whispering I love you in our ear will earn you MAJOR points!
12) Give us your coats if we say its cold. Don't question it, just do it. And if you're really really cold, hold us really close and rub your hands up our arms to warm us up (even if we're not really cold (; )
13) You need to be willing to compromise with us.
14) Don't make fun of us when we're wrong, or baby us, just change the subject.
15) Every girl's movie fantasy: You're sitting next to the guy friend you really like, and all of a sudden during the movie you put your arm around us, then as we catch you looking at us a couple times, you put your fingers on the other side of our chin, turn our face, and kiss us. SO CUTE!
16) Don't get frustrated with a girl if she won't go as far with you as you want and DON'T GIVE US AN ULTIMATUM! Just talk to us about it. Say we've been together for (however long) and I was wondering if you were ready to (whatever it is)? If she says I'm not sure, say okay, lets wait a little bit then, but we still should talk about it a little bit to make sure we're on the same page. Don't pressure her (unless its a simple kiss and you've been dating for more than 2 weeks, if that happens ask her why she won't kiss you, because if she really loved you she would want to kiss you).
17) We like straddling you, just as much as you do.
18) Girls like passionate kisses, and hot steamy kisses, which one we do depends on how you start it and where we are
19) Seriously, stand up for us once in a while. Half the male population understands this, and the other half doesn't keep girlfriends for very long.
20) We want our own little inside jokes, our secret places that we go, our song, all that stuff, but its no fun if you don't want it, too.
21) Not all girls are funny, so please stop making that your number one reason to date a girl (sex-ed taught me that this is what guys care about most... the list of what guys wanted was: funny, sense of humor, laughs at my jokes... that was it)
2)If you like us, tell us. Do not be worried about what we'll think, because we are flattered no matter if we like you or not.
3) Most of the time girls are 99% sure when a guy likes us. The only way to be 100% sure is if you tell us.
4) For some strange reason I've always found myself to become attracted to guys that like me. (Unless they're super creepy and stalk me!). But even if when you first tell me and I don't like you, chances are I will soon. I probably just never thought of you that way.
5) DON'T GIVE UP AFTER YOUR FIRST TRY!!!!!!!!! This is one fot he most annoying things guys can do. Maybe there's something going on that day, or I was just caught off guard, or I felt pressured and didn't think about it the first time you asked me, or maybe I just never thought of you like that. If you keep trying, and prove to the girl that you're serious, she will most likely go for you.
4) Going out of your way for us, makes a huge difference. I would never stay with a guy for long if he never tried. I mean, you don't have to cancel plans with your friend, but call us later that night, so we know you care.
5) Telling your guy friends how amazing we are, scores you major points.
6) We get really jealous when you hang around a bunch of other girls all the time.
7) We would rather you break up with us, than cheat on us. But if you decide to get back together with us afterwards, you have to tell us if you were with another girl.
8) Telling us a couple little white lies to make us happy is fine, but lying to us all the time will make us not trust you, and I promise you that's not a position you want to be in.
9) DON'T TELL YOUR GUY FRIENDS EVERYTHING WE SAY AND DO! If I give you a hicky and it's noticeable then you can tell them I gave it to you, but don't tell them everything else we did. One of my friends got slammed up against a wall with her boyfriend (kissing), and the next day she was so embarassed because her boyfriend told all of his friends and they kept making jokes about how he was showing us whose boss...
10) We do like you to show us who's boss (the slamming up against the wall thing is passionate and hot btw).
11) Add on to ^^^: You do have to be sweet though, you can't always expect us to do what you say. Coming up behind us at school and hugging us and whispering I love you in our ear will earn you MAJOR points!
12) Give us your coats if we say its cold. Don't question it, just do it. And if you're really really cold, hold us really close and rub your hands up our arms to warm us up (even if we're not really cold (; )
13) You need to be willing to compromise with us.
14) Don't make fun of us when we're wrong, or baby us, just change the subject.
15) Every girl's movie fantasy: You're sitting next to the guy friend you really like, and all of a sudden during the movie you put your arm around us, then as we catch you looking at us a couple times, you put your fingers on the other side of our chin, turn our face, and kiss us. SO CUTE!
16) Don't get frustrated with a girl if she won't go as far with you as you want and DON'T GIVE US AN ULTIMATUM! Just talk to us about it. Say we've been together for (however long) and I was wondering if you were ready to (whatever it is)? If she says I'm not sure, say okay, lets wait a little bit then, but we still should talk about it a little bit to make sure we're on the same page. Don't pressure her (unless its a simple kiss and you've been dating for more than 2 weeks, if that happens ask her why she won't kiss you, because if she really loved you she would want to kiss you).
17) We like straddling you, just as much as you do.
18) Girls like passionate kisses, and hot steamy kisses, which one we do depends on how you start it and where we are
19) Seriously, stand up for us once in a while. Half the male population understands this, and the other half doesn't keep girlfriends for very long.
20) We want our own little inside jokes, our secret places that we go, our song, all that stuff, but its no fun if you don't want it, too.
21) Not all girls are funny, so please stop making that your number one reason to date a girl (sex-ed taught me that this is what guys care about most... the list of what guys wanted was: funny, sense of humor, laughs at my jokes... that was it)
